(Closed) Risky question girls! Have you ever…..

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I don’t want to be the first bitchy poster but i’ve never. Ever since I met and got to know my fiance I’ve never thought about what it would be like being with someone else. Even through mild annoyances I have never thought of myself with anyone other than him. Maybe it’s just me, though.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

hhahahahahah – – – I HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT ALL OF MY EX’s, haahaahaahaaa – – – – I haven’t thought about my most current ex and I only have 2 others…One of them is unmarried and just had a baby.  The other one is married and now has two kids. I put myself in a position…If I were w/ ex A would we be unmarried having a child?  If I were with ex B would we be married with two kids, hhahahahahahah  Like you said we’re engaged but we aren’t dead, HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH

EDIT – – I thank my lucky stars for FH, he is the best thing that has ever entered my life and I am so beyond excited that he isn’t going anywhere. I would never in a gabillion years trade in where I am not to where I was in my past never!!!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I think that’s pretty normal actually lol. I mean, we all love our men (I love my hubby so SO much!) but sometimes we all have those “what if such-and-such had happened?” questions. We just have to understand that those things DIDN’T happen, and we are where we are and are blessed to have our men (even if they aren’t Matthew Mcchonaughey – who I’m sure probably farts and does gross things daily as well ;).

Yep. You’re pretty normal lol. I definately don’t let on like I have those thoughts though, just like I don’t want to know if he’s wondering what it would be like to be with “that” girl :S

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I can’t think of not being with him! Sorry! But even when he does his “guy” things, or things that annoy me, I still think how much I love him and I would miss those things if they were gone. I never think about being with an ex either because I am so happy that all of those relationships are over!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Oh and on a side note: I thank GOD every single day that I didn’t end up marrying one of my past ex’s. It would have been a COMPLETE disaster. My hubby and I are very well-suited for each other.

By The Way – when I DO have thoughts like that, they’re not BAD thoughts (you know, fantasies or anything) it’s just stuff like “Look at that couple, I wonder if her husband does such-and-such for her like B does for me” and then my mind goes back to my sweet man and the way he treats me and I just KNOW I am luckier than whoever I might be wondering about” 😉

Post # 8
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Busy bee

Definitely thought of an ex or two, but then I remember how upset, sad and all the terrible things they did and i appreciate where I am now and that I have an exceptional man. Of course we aren’t dead and neither are FH etc. they look or think so why can’t we as long as it doesn’t go past that lol

Post # 9
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Busy bee

All I can think about is how lucky I am that I am with him! 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

While I don’t think about being with another guy, sometimes I think “I can’t believe he just did that – how have I not noticed this before?”

I think it’s natural – when we were first dating, we put our best selves forward. Over time, things get more “relaxed”. I’m sure it would be the same with Matthew too – I’m sure he does “grossly guy things” that would come out if you dated him for a while!

Post # 11
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I wonder whatever happened to my high school boyfriend.  Last I heard he had moved to  another state.  I suppose I could try to find him, but never have taken the time.  I do wonder though.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

Neither of us have any serious exes, and he doesn’t have any at all. I know every relationship has its rough patches, but our last one was two years ago and I haven’t thought about anyone else. I mean, there are still times when I take R for granted, and awhile later I’ll realize that X fight was ridiculous, but I never think any of his habits are truly gross (no matter how much I may make fun of him.)

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

Oh absolutely!! I joke with Fiance all the time about living with his “grossly guy things or annoying habits” (read: dude grooming & boy farts) forever. LOL 

As far as the ex’s thing – I have to admit I do think about it, but more in the negative – as in: if I were still with that guy, I’d have 2.5kids, a dog, a minivan in the driveway, the house, the white picket fence – your basic American dream… but I’d never be HAPPY because I was never in love with him.

For other guys… yes to that too. We’re not dead. Funny story – I was in Duane Reade a while back and this really handsome guy was in front of me, of course I noticed him. He looked at me quickly & smiled. I looked away and scratched my nose to kinda flash the bling & be all “Hey, I’m taken mister”. He paid & turned to say “Have a nice day” that’s when I noticed – THE COLLAR!! I had ashes on my forehead for Ash Wed and HE WAS A PRIEST!!!  I would’ve never thought of it because he was young – serves me right. Hystericall!

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

I don’t really think about my exes at all but sometimes when FH is doing something gross or “manly” I’m like, really? I have to live with this for the rest of my life?? Haha, I think it’s a normal reaction to have, there’s always going to be “what ifs” and thoughts like that, it’s whether they affect you or not that is an issue…

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Both of us were tempted to go to other universities (which is where we met) so sometimes I wonder how different my life would be now if one or the other of us hadn’t chosen that college. ^_^ It’s weird because you think about how much your life is influenced by another person and to count up all those forks in the road where you could have made a decision that would have taken you down a totally different path. (This is not in a regretful way of thinking, just a pondering chain of thought about how one person can really change the course of another person’s life ^_^).

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I sometimes look at my Fiance and think, how on earth did I end up with this weirdo! Then I remember its because I’m pretty weird….

 

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