- 2 years ago
Met my awesome boyfriend Sept 5th. Moved in officially in early Dec.
He already had a roomie so I moved in with him and the roommate. It’s my boyfriend’s place, 3 br, 2 ba. Roomie wasn’t allowed to smoke weed indoors anymore after I started coming around because:
A. Roomie smokes weed every hour that he’s awake out of a 3 ft glass bong. I am not exaggerating. Even friends who smoke think the house stinks and it’s awful to be around.
B. We have forced hot air for heat and the pot smoke gets distributed through the entire house.
C. Boyfriend and I don’t smoke and hate the smell of it.
Roomie agreed he wouldn’t smoke inside anymore. Boyfriend had told him he couldn’t smoke inside before he ever even moved in but started enforcing it when I came around.
So, boyfriend and roomie got into a big fight yesterday. I’ve been smelling weed and roomie has also been cranking the heat up at night to 75 and we’ve been waking up in a pool of sweat.
Boyfriend talked to him and roomie has been smoking weed in his room with the vents covered and the window open, then cranking the heat for the entire house just to reheat his room.
Boyfriend told him yet again he can’t smoke weed in the house and blasting the heat is irritating us. They got into a big fight about various things and roomie ranted endlessly about me. Eventually, roomie said smoking is a big part of his lifestyle and he’s moving out. Boyfriend said that’s a good idea.
This isn’t the only issue and boyfriend wanted him out anyway. He never cleans, never buys toilet paper, paper towels, dish soap, laundry soap, cleaning supplies, nothing. Eats boyfriend’s food. Helps himself to boyfriend’s tools and things. Has 15 pedal bikes crowding up the basement etc.
Anyway, boyfriend is happy he’s leaving but things are super awkward in the meantime and boyfriend and roomie have been friends for 10 years. I want to talk to him to ease the awkwardness.
Tldr: Roomie is pissed bc he can’t smoke weed in the house. He smokes absurd amounts every hour he’s awake and the forced hot air distributes it around the house. Roomie threatened to move out and boyfriend told him he should. Things are super awkward and I want to make things less awkward bc he probably won’t be leaving for another couple months.