(Closed) Roommate Trouble

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
2168 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@lalamcbee:  I’m sorry….I couldn’t even finish reading your post before I just have to ask:


Post # 5
4524 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@sillysillybee:  @somethingaquamarine:  +100

Were you not aware she was a trainwreck prior to signing a lease with this person?

I guess that’s neither here nor there since you did. Don’t “break” anything to her: cover your ass with your landlord, then pick a day she’s at work or out with her pals and move your things.

Post # 6
7147 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@badabing88: +1 I know hindsight is 20/20 but how could you not know that your best friend is like this?

Anyways, I would not tell her and would move out when she isn’t home. With the way she is I would definitely worry about her damaging my things.

Post # 7
4416 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I agree with the PPs — treat this like moving out of the house you share with an abusive partner. Which means get out when she’s not home, don’t tell her until you’re gone, and make sure you have someone with you at the time just in case. She sounds a little unhinged. More than a little, in fact.

Post # 8
478 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@MrsBeck:  Yes. As sneaky as it is, moving out when she isn’t there without telling her seems the safest.

Post # 10
3220 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I also agree with previous posters. Move all of your belongings before letting her know you’re leaving. If that has to come in the form of a phone call, text, or email, then so be it. She’s violated your space, belongings, and has been disrespectful of your needs. Don’t feel like you need to make anything up to her, just get the heck out when you can and let her deal with your own mess.


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