(Closed) Rose Ceremony Dilemma #2

posted 6 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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9056 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Are you totally set on the rose ceremony?  It just seems like you have so many potential people to include that it kind of dilutes the senitiment… Personally, I might leave it at the rose for your biological mom, and either the candle or a rose for his biological.  Then the distinction is clear cut, and you don’t have to make any subjective decisions of who’s “deserving”.

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Personally, I would do rose for your mother and candle your future hubby’s mother.  Your hubby’s father was only recently married.  She, your father’s girlfriend, and mother’s partner, I’m sure, would be totally understanding.  It makes things less complicated.  I assume they will feel reasonable and just happy for you two that they won’t be petty by seeing it as being left out.

Post # 6
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5428 posts
Bee Keeper

Yes, I would stick with the “biological” mothers with the Rose ceremony. It makes more sense that way.

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