(Closed) Rough day

posted 9 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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990 posts
Busy bee

*hugs hugs* Bad days suck – and it’s natural to feel irritated by him! I had a similar night with CW last night – I was so annoyed that he was too tired to want to visit (we live an hour apart).

So I hope your night gets better!

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

Frown (Hugs!) I would be irritated too – I know my Fiance gets like this when he’s stressed. It usually happens once a semester right during finals week, lol. I always just try to be as nice as possible and wait it out. Well, unless it just gets too ridiculous then I talk to him and tell him that he really needs to stop being such a jerk. Smile

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Sorry that you feel like that! FH is the same way when tired or stressed, and I like to talk and would take it very personal when he acts like that. I quickly learned that when I get these one word answers and hmm hmm, it always leads to misunderstandings; so I turn on the music and don’t talk for a while. Every time, he starts a conversation about 5-10 minutes later and is grateful that I didn’t insist on talking when he wasn’t ready… something to try?

Good luck!

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2009

I’m sorry you had a bad day.  Hive hug!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Hugs! Sorry to hear you’re having a rough day. We all get irritated with each other sometimes.

By the way, I feel similarly about changing my name. I wanted to, but didn’t, and eventually did and sometimes get pretty upset about it. The other day I shredded my old credit cards with the old name and got pretty emotional.

Post # 8
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3281 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Aww I’m sorry, sometimes I wish my Boyfriend or Best Friend would put away that stupid phone too! 

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

*Hugs* I’d be pretty darn irritated myself!

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m sorry that you had a bad day.  But I understand why he isn’t really in the mood for much.  I worked 70 hours for a few months at my job and I could barely get enough energy to do anything, I can’t imagine him working that much for such a long period of time.  I’m sure you guys can work something out!

Post # 11
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792 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

*Huggs* I think it’s totally alright to get irratated with our bf’s/FI/Husbands. Before Fiance and I got engaged, and before I moved in with him, I lived 30 mins away from him in a little toen called Hamburg. I would get so mad at him when it was Fri. night and we were both out of classes for the weekend, and he would tell me he was too tired to come see me, and would wait till Sat. I was so mad, because I wanted to have a sleep over, haha. Kind of like Alishaneva’s situation, but not as far, but not we live together, so even if he is tired, I still get to see him. It’ll get better, I’m sure. Don’t worry, and cheer up. =]

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