(Closed) RSVP cards with multiple people on them…how to know who chose what entree?

posted 11 years ago in Food
Post # 3
1404 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

instead of having them check a box next to an entree we put a big line like this below and said please write your full name next to your entree choice.  We still had some people that did it wrong though, put numbers instead of names or just put an X.  We had to call those people.




Post # 4
3930 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

you can also just ask them to initial next to the choice

Post # 5
338 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think we’re going with the “initial next to your choice” route.

Post # 7
3358 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

We asked our guests to “initial next to your prefered meal choice”

Post # 8
286 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I’m going to have to do the same thing. I’m planning on putting different colored ribbon on the escort cards. I’m so worried about people filling out the RSVP cards wrong. None of my friends or family members have had a seated dinner, so I’m afraid no one is going to know how to fill out the card right.

@amariem25: How many people did you end up calling? How many people filled it out correctly?

Post # 9
830 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

We have to submit entree choices but fortunately not by individual, just a total of each and then a total of each per table. If we had to give an exact meal-to-guest list, we probably would have gone the “Initial for each choice” or I might have created stickers with the invitees initials to include with the RSVP so they would just have to slap stickers next to their choice.

Post # 10
109 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

We also went the “initial by your meal choice” route.  A lot of people still did it wrong (put a check or number by the meal instead of their initials), but we figured it wasn’t that big of a deal since they were sitting together anyway.  If we guessed wrong, they could always trade.

Post # 11
158 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

We did the “initial next to your meal choice” thing too.  Most people followed directions.  Some put check marks instead, but they were either picking the same meal or were a couple who could just trade if we guessed wrong.

Post # 12
2 posts
  • Wedding: May 2012

Was JUST thinking about this today myself — and having a mini-freak-out!  Thanks for the suggestions, ladies!

Post # 13
285 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

At every wedding I’ve been to the servers asked what dish we had chosen. They know the number of each entree to make by the numbers you give them based on the RSVPs, and then they know who gets which entree by asking the guests.

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