- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
Sorry bees I need to vent.
I have gotten a great response from our RSVP’s but my cousin is driving me nuts with his.
I sent it to him and gave him a plus one. He RSVP’d for himself and ‘Guest’ (no name) and said they would both have the steak. Um ok? I thought it was an oversight that he didn’t give a name but nope, I messaged him asking a name (I was polite…the first time) and he simply wrote back “Just put it as Guest, I don’t know who I’m bringing but I will have a date, too many to choose from” um heck no. It is a sit down dinner with name cards and non refundable food if you don’t show up I get stuck paying almost $50 for your non existant date. I wrote him back saying I need a name for the seating and table cards and putting Guest won’t work and we get charged for the food if someone doesn’t show up (haven’t heard back, just sent it). I just am SO annoyed. This side of the family is so loosey goosey about these things and it’s SO annoying. This cousin is just annoying, rude and doesn’t it. My mom is super annoyed but refuses to say anything because she doesn’t want to start “family issues” but it’s just like ok so they can walk all over us?
Sorry bees I’m just annoyed. Did you get any weird/stupid RSVP responses?
**Also as an edit I only gave him a guest b/c I thought he had a girlfriend which he clearly doesn’t. We kept our wedding/reception small (for us) and only invited family & close friends so I’m annoyed he would just bring any old bar hag he decides to pick up…