(Closed) RSVP Date passed. What do I do now?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
3723 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Call them.

Post # 3
2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Waitingbee57:  Sadly, call them all.  I know it’s a total bummer.  I emailed people whose email addresses I knew to be reliable.  Also split it with your FI, he contacts his side and you contact yours, that’ll make it a little quicker.  And try not to hate all the people who didn’t RSVP despite having a self-addressed stamped envelope, it’s hard to do sometimes…

Post # 4
2302 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter's Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

Start calling them…divide the list up (you, FI, parents) and hit the phones.

Post # 5
720 posts
Busy bee

Start calling and teXting. Lol. People just don’t like to RSVP. I had to track down about the same amount of people. 🙂

Post # 7
424 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016 - Our Castle

Waitingbee57:  Now!. You gave an RSVP date for a reason! this is when they should have told you by!.. Dont tell them u need to give numbers by sept 4th.. say you need to know now, while your on the phone!..

Post # 8
720 posts
Busy bee

I waited a few days past my RSVP date to round up anything late in the mail. 

Post # 9
185 posts
Blushing bee

start calling people mid week. i’d give the mail a few days to catch up.

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