(Closed) RSVP date was March 1…

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
5890 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

@mrsbruff2b:  i think it’s standard to wait a week before following up.  they may have just popped them on the mail on the 1st.

Post # 4
2106 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would not wait a week.  Call them now (or yesterday).  If they have just popped them in the mail, they will say so and you can ask if they’re coming or not all the same.  Anytime after the RSVP date is fine to contact guests.

Post # 5
2849 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think you should wait closer to a week to follow up. Many people wait until the last minute to mail their RSVP cards, so you’ll probably be getting some soon.

Post # 6
226 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2007

We gave our guests 5-7 days before calling them up.  Many of them mailed it at the last minute so quite a few RSVPs came a few days after the requested date.

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