(Closed) RSVP deadline is tomorrow… and still haven’t heard from my brother!?!?!

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1763 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Well, if you said exactly that to him he probably isn’t coming. He probably just wanted hear that he was welcome and that you would be happy to see him, but he probably felt very insulted that you implied that he and his wife cause drama.

If it is that important to you, I would call and apologize if that is how he perceives things and tell him you really want him there, because you want a relationship with him, not just so you get your picture. 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Oy. I think you are going to have to call and clarify what’s going on. He may be under the impression that the discussion you two had qualified as an RSVP. I don’t know, but unfortunately it does warrant further investigation if he doesn’t get back to you by tomorrow.

Post # 7
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1763 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Thanks for the follow up, I would just call and ask him a couple days after the deadline and not worry too much until then. Even if he is just trying to bother your parents, just ignore it and try to stay as far away from their drama as you can!

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper

Really glad to hear that they are putting things aside to be able to attend! Let’s hope the drama does stay at home!

By The Way, your date is the date we closed on our house last year, so it’s an awesome date :o)

Post # 11
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552 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I live with my brother and his wife and I haven’t gotten their RSVP card yet, lol. 

Good luck to you I hope there’s no drama!!  I think we all have those one or 2 guests we are worried about in that dept….

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