(Closed) RSVP HELL!

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
322 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

LOL – I’m right there with you!  Just send the thing in!! 

Post # 4
3601 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

I’m nervous about this, too!

Post # 5
2867 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

It’s super rude…unfortunately people always just assume you KNOW they’re coming. I was so happy once our date to give final numbers to the caterer had passed so then I couldn’t stress about it – at that point I was just like “Whatever, hopefully there’s enough to eat.”

Post # 8
808 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

We sent ours February 24th and asked for a response by March 15th.  (Granted that was only 3 weeks notice, yet they got a save the date in Septemeber.)  Well that was yesterday.  We currently have 62 guests attending, 19 no’s and about 75 with no response.  (Well I take that back, Fiance parents and relatives have said they are coming, just haven’t sent the RSVP back in.)  I am going to wait until the 28th to get the card back and then I will start calling. 

Post # 9
1667 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

we are in the middle of this right now, ughhh, just send it back people. You don’t even have to buy a freaking stamp!

Post # 10
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I remember going through this and it pissing me off so much.  Harsh reality: Remember your wedding is only important to you, it’s just a party for everyone else

Post # 11
6824 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Blah, I will have to remember this, we are sending out our invites in the next few weeks here. 

Post # 12
5 posts
  • Wedding: April 2011

We just went through this, so I can totally feel your pain.

We sent out over 100 invites and a lot of people never responded. We wound up reaching out to them and that’s when they RSVP’d, over the phone. Never sent back the response and that made me so angry because I put stamps on the RSVP’s!!!

It’s so frustrating! 23 days to go!

Post # 13
3978 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

We’re doing RSVP’s through our website. Put the invites in the mailbox on Sunday afternoon and already have 2 RSVP’s!

Post # 14
3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I’m breaking all rules in the book with our wedding, partly because of this!  

I posted our STD on facebook in a private album for only those I tagged.  Some of the responses left us laughing, too!  I’m also doing a private facebook event, an online RSVP, and sending invites WITH rsvp’s and pre-addresses/stamped envelopes (well, maybe not pre-stamped.  That’ll be up to my Fiance…).  

If we don’t get the cards, we’ll email, message, and call, but I’m pretty sure with using facebook for most of our friends and several family members, it’ll be a lot easier than waiting for the card to be mailed back.  


Post # 16
860 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

How annoying!  People know whether or not they are going come immediately!

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