(Closed) RSVP oops!

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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5073 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

no worries!  There was no way you could have known 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m sure he is just appreciative that he can bring her, and probably thinks it’s nice that you were gracious enough to apologize & allow her to come. You couldn’t have known!

I did the same thing with my cousin, and her mom asked me if it might be okay for her to bring her Boyfriend or Best Friend to the wedding because they’ve been dating quite a long time, and he was in town staying with my aunt’s family for the weekend (he lives in Chicago, they live in NE Ohio). I felt so bad! What can you do, though?

Post # 5
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673 posts
Busy bee

Don’t worry about it. If he didn’t share it, then there’s no way for you to know. You’ve made amends by apologizing and inviting the girlfriend. If he or his parents us the situation to create drama, then that bad behavior is on them, not you.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

Silly cousin! Honestly, if no one thought to share the info with you…you can hardly be held accountable for not knowing to give him a plus one. You did the right thing by apologizing her and including her. I don’t see why this would cause any drama – don’t worry!

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