(Closed) RSVP poll!

posted 8 years ago in Paper
  • poll: Where did your RSVP responses go to?
    my fiance and me : (22 votes)
    61 %
    my parents : (8 votes)
    22 %
    just me : (6 votes)
    17 %
  • Post # 3
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    234 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I did only because I needed to know what their dinner selection was.

    Post # 4
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    234 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    O nevermind I misread the question, the responses went to me and Fiance 🙂

    Post # 5
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    4385 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I think if you live at home with your parents, then it’s pretty common. Also, if they’re hosting, then maybe. I live with my Fiance and our wedding is not in my hometown, so they’re coming to us!

    Post # 6
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    6597 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    They came to us!

    It would have been weird to go to my parents because I was doing all the organizing.

    Post # 7
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    3219 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    We live together so they went to both but they were pre-addressed to my name

    Post # 8
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    7695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    They came to us. I did everything for our wedding so thats why!!

    Post # 9
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    73 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    Technically they’ll be coming to both me and my parents because I’ll be living with them for two months before the wedding.  But they’ll be addressed to my parents, and I think even if I wasn’t living there, they’d still be going to my parents who are hosting the wedding.

    Post # 10
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    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    My parents hosted, the invitations came from them and the RSVPs went back to them.  Honestly, I think if the parents are hosting, that only makes sense.  You’d never RSVP to your sister for a dinner party at a friend’s house; you’d respond to the host, your friend.  The wedding invites are no different.

    We did set up a google docs spreadsheet that my mom updated every couple of days though so that Darling Husband and I could still be aware of who’d RSVPed, who was coming, etc.

    Post # 11
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    4485 posts
    Honey bee

    Every invite I have received has had the reply card addressed to the couple. We’re going that route as well.

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