(Closed) RSVP to rehersal dinner – name not on envelope

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would say there was a miscommunication between the bride/groom and the groom’s parents about who is invited to the rehearsal dinner – you have already discussed your daughter coming to the rehearsal dinner with the bride and her mother. I would call your boyfriend’s mother just to clarify. Also, if you are comfortable, I would call the groom’s parents directly and explain the situation/miscommunication. If you aren’t comfortable, I would have your boyfriend’s mom or sister tlak to her. You just might feel better about the situation if you speak with her directly – tell you you don’t care either way, but you thought she was invited.

Post # 4
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1548 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Since you previously discussed a child’s plate and bringing her with the bride and MOB, I would just call and confirm. They probably left her off the invite because they already knew she was coming. 

Post # 5
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46679 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Can your Boyfriend or Best Friend clarify the situation with the groom’s parents or sister (whoever is hosting the dinner) before you RSVP?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@mirandag0819:  have your Boyfriend or Best Friend call his sister

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