- 6 years ago
Ok I need some advice here bees, I don’t want to break any etiquette rules. BFs sister is getting married in a few weeks. He is a groomsman and the wedding it out of town for us. I have a 7 year old daughter from a previous marriage who was invited to the wedding and will be attending with us.
His mother mentioned a few weeks ago there would be a child’s plate ordered for her at the rehearsal dinner, and his sister confirmed with us that we were bringing her to the wedding and rehearsal dinner.
The invitation for the rehearsal dinner came from the groom’s parents yesterday and was addressed to Boyfriend or Best Friend and myself. I need to RSVP and I’m not sure how to handle it. Do I assume they knew she was coming and RSVP that we will be there? Do I mention that the bride and MOB said a child’s plate was ordered for her? Do I RSVP that my Boyfriend or Best Friend will be there and just stay at the hotel with DD? Call BFs mom or sister and clarify before RSVPing?
I would just RSVP for him and stay at the hotel normally since her name wasn’t on the invitation, but since his family has brought it up several times I’m guessing maybe they left her name off the envelope (our 3 names with 3 different last names would be pretty long, and there was no inner envelope for this invite).