(Closed) RSVP Vent

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

Frankly, I would say forget about her. You make too much effort to be her friend while she makes none.

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think you’ve answered your own question. Time to move beyond this “friendship”, it sounds like neither of you are much interested. I would just let her off easy with the wedding and call her and say you totally understand that she can’t make it and you’ll miss her. Now you won’t have to send her a thank you card either 😉  Sorry she’s proven to be a crappy friend. It sounds like she’ll be someone you bump into every now and then but I’d just let it grow apart.

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Jealous, negative people can only have a negative effect on your life, and who needs that?? Move on, sister 🙂

Post # 6
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158 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

It is sad when friendships go down this route, but I agree with the other posters. This woman needs to be forgotten, it isn’t the wedding thing that doesn’t sound right but rather the fact that she seems to be a jealous and sarcastic person that seems to be a drag. I suggest that since you did contact her and found out that she is not going to go, by all rights she isn’t going to go. Just focus on your wedding and your new life! Good luck!

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I agree with everyone.  It sounds like she’s not a good friend at all.  I wouldn’t even bother calling her since the wedding is three weeks away and she clearly isn’t planning to attend.  I would forget about her and focus on what you need to get done over the next three weeks.  After the wedding, you can reevaluate and decide whether this frienship is worth keeping.

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