(Closed) RSVP VENT! Who’s with me?!

posted 7 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
241 posts
Helper bee

Yea some people really are trying to figure out if they can come because of work or kids but more often people just forget. I always do it right away because I would forget.

Post # 4
3049 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

You should probably wait a few days after the deadline. People might send it on the day of the deadline, meaning you get it later. I hate it when people don’t honor deadlines either… it’s really annoying, but I have to give myself a “come to earth” talk when times not up yet. I think the earlier the better, but not everyone is like me 🙁

Post # 5
1474 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m not going to send paper RSVPs with most of my invites. I might for some of the older guests, but the rest I’m going to either set up a website or give them contact info and a deadline.

Post # 6
1328 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

They might’ve forgotten!  People just suck like that sometimes =(  Since planning this wedding, we’ve gone to two weddings and I made sure to send the RSVP back the next day after receiving it.  haha =)

Post # 7
646 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Annoying, yes… But who really ever paid attention to that kind of thing until they started planning a wedding (either their own or a friend’s.)

Take a deep breath, have your bridesmaids call to follow up if they still haven’t responded a couple days after the deadline.

Post # 9
601 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I feel ya. I’m irritated as hell that 2 weeks after the deadine, I still don’t have them all.

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