(Closed) RSVP’s

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Member
1843 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I was just checking our stats today.  We’ve still got a week left for our RSVP date.  We’ve received 71 and are still waiting on 65!

Post # 4
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5106 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@shMORGANbord:I’d be making some phone calls. For real. But I’m a pull out all the stops kind of gal.

My rsvp date for return is Septemeber 2nd, I just sent out invites last Monday and I’ve received 58 back already out of 171.

 

Post # 5
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916 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

We haven’t sent out our reception invitations yet, but I’m afraid that when we do this is gonna happen to us cuz it did for our Shower. We must’ve had at least 20 people out of 50 not RSVP. People had to call or email for the shower though so I would think mailing back a postcard would be a lot simpler.

 

Post # 6
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548 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Why is it so difficult to get these back?!?!? seriously just check the box, write your name and send it back. The stamp and address is on it already. Im not looking forward to hunting down everyone and ask if they are coming to the wedding.

Give it a week before you start calling, maybe some are in the mail right now.

Post # 7
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5106 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@HeatherShane: Yeah. I don’t get it either. You even have it postmarked already. WHAT IS THE ISSUE?!

And not only do you have to worry about getting them back, but you have to pre-number them to make sure you know who sends it back because sometimes people can’t even be bothered to write their name in. Seriously?!

Post # 8
Member
548 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Really? i didnt do that… CRAP!!!! and they went out a yesterday. THey better write their names!! How hard is it to write your own name?

Post # 9
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5106 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@HeatherShane: Yeah, I put a little number that corresponds with each person on my guest list on the back of the RSVP card. I’ve already had four that didn’t write their name, only check marked “will attend”. WTF.

 

Post # 10
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1843 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Mrs.tobe:  I numbered the back of mine too, although I haven’t had any come back without a name.

OP – I would give it a few more days for the last of the RSVPs to trickle in and then you really don’t have a choice but to start making phone calls/sending emails.

Post # 11
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5106 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I really like getting the ones back where people have included a little note 🙂

I swear, I go to the mailbox everyday and it’s like Christmas! I love it! But I hope they keep coming in force. lol

@milesbella:Yeah, I did it “just in case” really not expecting it to happen. Then, the first RSVP we got in the mail…. no name.

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