Post # 1

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Helper bee
So my Fiance wouldn’t say a single thing about what dresses he liked or didn’t like before I went dress shopping. Now that I have bought my dress (he hasn’t seen it), he mentions when I show him another dress with ruching that it looks like she’s wrapped up like a mummy. Now, my dress doesn’t really have ruching…but it looks about 10 times more like a mummy than any ruched dress I’ve seen. Gah! What to do?


I was already having dress regret, and now I REALLY do. But whenever I mention trying to get a new dress, he says that whatever dress I bought is the only dress he wants to see me in on our wedding day. He’s annoying. haha but I love him. Should I get a new dress?
Post # 3

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Honey bee
I love ruching too, my Fiance told me it looked like I was wrapped in toilet paper when I showed him some dresses I liked…lol. I just brushed it off because when I buy my dress and he sees me in it, he’ll change his mind!!!
Post # 4

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Buzzing bee
No matter what you’re wearing, when you walk down the aisle, you will be the woman he wants to marry. I’m pretty sure that I could have been wearing a fuschia and chartreuse muumuu and he still would have “gotten something in his eye” (which is how he explains why he was rubbing his eyes).
Post # 5

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Newbee
I love your dress! It says simply elegance to me. When your FH sees you all dolled up, walking down the aisle to him, a mummy will be the last thing on his mind!
Post # 6

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Blushing bee
Totally with you!! My Fiance saw my dress on Say Yes to the Dress and commented that the girl looked like a SILK WORM! I almost died. Then I stressed about it for like a week. But I think what the previous posts have said is dead on. Once he sees you in that dress he will be thinking completely opposit of “mummy”. I’ll let you know how mine turns out – ONE WEEK! I’ll report back and let you know if he even noticed the silk worm. 
Post # 7

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Helper bee
@sbbridebythesea: you just made me laugh. what does a silk worm even look like?? definitely update me. and congrats! you’re getting married soooo soon!
Post # 8

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Buzzing Beekeeper
guys often make comments like that.. but when he sees you in the dress he wont be thinking you look like a mummy at all.
Post # 9

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Sugar Beekeeper
He probably won’t even remember he made this statement at your wedding. it is a beautiful dress on you btw!!!! Trust me guiys say the silliest things!!!