(Closed) rude !

posted 7 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
Member
626 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I can only speak for myself, but I generally won’t comment unless I feel I have something new to say.

Post # 4
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9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@mrshersch74:  Sorry you feel that way. However, starting threads calling everyone “rude” probably isn’t the fastest way to make friends I’d imagine.

Post # 5
Member
995 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Welcome! Try not to take it personally. I’m a thread killer so I have to remind myself it isn’t about me 🙂

Post # 6
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14494 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@mrshersch74:  I am so sorry that happened.  Sometimes the boards move so fast that it is hard to get comments.  We all have threads that no one responds to.  If you go back through my history I have a ton.  Maybe this thread will be a little help, but try just to chalk it up to a busy week on the boards.   But I will say, sometimes posters don’t respond to the answers they just read them.  Just keep posting and everyone will get to know you, I promise.

http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/how-to-write-a-successful-post

Post # 7
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2792 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@mrshersch74:  I’m sorry that you feel that way about the bees. We don’t do it on purpose. I’ve been here for almost 2 months and in that time I haven’t always gotten replies to my comments. But that doesn’t deter me because the Hive is a big place and I’m just one little bee. 

But I’ve gotten to know some people and I don’t regret joining the hive. In time you will get to “know” people around here too. Smile

Post # 8
Member
688 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@mrshersch74:  don’t go….I think it just takes sometime to get replies. I am very guilty of responding to threads and never looking back to see if there are more comments. I am pretty new on here and think you will like it if you stick around.

Post # 9
Member
642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@mrshersch74:  We all feel like thread killers at one time or another; when I first started posting on here I felt the same way that you are feeling right now. Hang in there, the bees are really lovely ladies and have great advice and support to give. Just give us a chance 🙂 

                        

Post # 10
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1724 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I also think that there are SO many Bees on here that it’s a little harsh to judge the whole site and everyone on it! Keep trying!

Post # 11
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5295 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

@KatyElle:  *snort*

most of us feel like thread-killers or unloved at some point or another. I know I did, but I just kept posting and eventually people responded…..or I knew not to take it personally if they didn’t. Heck, I still kill half the threads I post in.

But yeah, calling everyone rude and writing a flounce post isn’t the fast track to fun Bee times. 

Post # 12
Member
2253 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Hey! Don’t leave. WB is an awesome place. Sometimes its just the thread you comment on. When I first joined, even now, I often think I was a thread killer. The threads just seem to die after I posted. Secondly, granted there may be rude people on here just like the real world but I wouldn’t let them get to you. As for people “talking around you” maybe they’re just excited about the subject and often forget to post or answer your original question.

Post # 13
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14494 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@mrshersch74:  You welcome.  The hostesses try to do their best to keep up with new posters, but there are only a few of us and so many new Bees the last few months.  If you ever start a thread and you don’t really get any response and one of us misses it, you can always PM me a link and I will respond as soon as I get on.  I am on during odd times but I will see the PM eventually.  Smile

Post # 14
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425 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I don’t think most people often pay much attention to who specifically made a post (as in, “Oh, it’s Mrs. Hersch 74 I don’t need to respond to that”). I certainly don’t!

Like others have said, I think we all feel like “threadkillers” sometimes. I wouldn’t take it personally 🙂

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