(Closed) Rude co-worker..annoyed.

posted 4 years ago in Career
Post # 3
11166 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

Daizy914:  What the heck is your co-workers doing looking into your drawer? That seems a bit odd and suspicious to me.

Post # 5
1938 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would move my stash if I were you… what a weirdo! How rude! 

Post # 6
973 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I would make a point of going up to her and saying, hey just so you know I have hypoglycemia (low blood sugar) and that is my emergency stash that I need to use at my discretion so I don’t get sick, so unfortunately won’t be sharing. also I was wondering if you needed something from me since you went through my drawr, is there something I can provide you with? It’s not a total lie because everyine has low blood sugar at some point, and she will feel guilty for trying to take something that clearly isn’t in her right to take. Plus that in a nicer way makes the point of saying ur not ok w her going through ur stuff. 

Post # 7
4518 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Your coworker’s comments were a bit much, for sure, but dude… it’s candy! You know whenever you are eating something in front of other people you need to be ready to share. It’s not about “my candy” bought with “my money” and all that… just know that if you have something yummy, people are going to want it. That’s life.

Post # 8
2958 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

So, wait, you say you would share if they ask, but when she asked you lied. Right? 

Regardless, they are yours to do with as you please. I’d probably try and be a bit more secretive about them if you don’t want to share.

Post # 9
3507 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

UGGGGHHH so rude! One time I had a can of nuts hidden in my desk and someone took them out and eat then and put them on top of my desk so everyone can share! I threw them out. Now hen I have snacks in my desk I lock it!!

Post # 10
9181 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

whoa_its_ash:  no she means that she had eaten them all and the chick was like “ALL of them?! you fatso”, basically.

Post # 11
9794 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

youre going to seem really petty if you ask her why she was “in your drawers”. She probably just noticed you eating one…

Personally I would rather share and be liked even if itheyre MINE from MY MONEY, than get possessive over a candy stash.

Post # 12
3771 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

I would think it to be odd if a co-worker that usually brings candy and shares got their undies in a bunch over me asking for a piece. I don’t think what she did was rude given you bring a bag and do occaisionally share.

If she went through your desk, that would be one thing, but it sounds like you just didn’t feel like sharing today.

Post # 13
2457 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

stillme:  +1

She wasn’t out of line for asking if you eat it in front of her and she sees it all the time. It would be one thing if you brought your lunch and she asked you for some — but it’s candy, that just sits there. Maybe she was pms’g and didn’t have cash for a candy bar, but she remembered you had some. Seriously, there’s nothing wrong with that.

What was weird was how she accused you of having more than that. THAT made it weird. 

Post # 14
4934 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

:/ Sorry, but I would have shared. If she was rooting through your drawers that’s pretty rude, but ot sounds like she just noticed you had some. A few candies is not worth coming off stingy like that.

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