(Closed) Rude destination wedding invite. Who else thinks this is a gift grab…?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Expensive destination wedding. No invite for live-in gf. Are they just looking for gift $?
    YES! They couldn't have imagined he would RSVP 'yes' to this. : (54 votes)
    39 %
    NO! There may be a good reason for this that you are missing. : (63 votes)
    45 %
    Other. Please explain. : (23 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 77
    1252 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I think they are just incredibly rude!

    Post # 78
    5188 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    @maggiedubois:  you sound pretty bitter. So you’ve met them and they know who you are? That doesn’t count as a friendship per se. Maybe they don’t want you at their wedding. There are a million posts on the bee about who does/doesn’t get a +1 and not wanting strangers at their wedding. Destination weddings are usually very exclusive. Not the kind of event where everyone gets a +1 automatically no matter how wealthy the couple is. I suspect you’re more hurt (understandably) that they’re not acknowledging your engagement. If you were already married they’d have to invite you for sure.

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