(Closed) Rude guests already?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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729 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I have people complaining that we are having a full catholic mass. Already! Our wedding is not until January. We haven’t even sent out invitations yet so how do you know you are invited?

Someone came up to me telling me what there plans were for the wedding; where they were going to stay, etc. Again, how do you know you are invited.

Someone else complainig that we are taking photos after the ceremony. It is only going to take 7-10 minutes. I’m sorry, but I drove 4 hours to your wedding that lasted 1 hour TOTAL and got like NO food to eat mid-day. I think you can wait a few minutes. (we are having a band play while guests wait and then secondlining to the reception venue.) They asked if we were going to have drinks for them and they didn’t have a drink at their wedding. 

Someone else complained our wedding was starting at 7pm. Sorry I’m not having a midday wedding. Get over it.

I’m sorry if you don’t like it don’t come. By The Way all these people live in different areas of the country than me, but it is still annoying.

Post # 4
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3941 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I hate people. 

 

That is all.  Haha. 

Post # 5
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81 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Oh I am so over the guest list BS. Everyone keeps adding people and trying to switch things around. Uh, you didn’t get a “and guest” so IT’S JUST YOU. And no your kid can’t come, IT’S JUST YOU. Geez people are clueless.

Post # 6
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729 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

@xtatic1: Yeah I agree. The and guest thing kills me, esp. when you know there is no “guest”!

Post # 6
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

personally i think you are in the wrong for dumping a best man because he has a work obligation and will miss the rehearsal – he didnt say he couldnt make the wedding. i for one take my job and career very seriously and sometimes things come up, what a bad way to treat your friend.  i totally understand why your best man would be upset

Post # 7
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698 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Uh, yeah!  Ours isn’t till November and some people are aready becoming problems!  Like “I don’t want to sit with so and so” or “ugh, you’re having the ceremony in a church so i gotta drive there too?” or Fiance family “we can’t afford to pay for tux rentals, so we will find something else to wear.” UM, what?  Oh, and here’s a good one, “they’re asking for monetary gifts instead of a registery.  How tacky.”  DON’T COME THEN!

Post # 8
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698 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Oh yeah the kid thing!  Your kid is not invited, get a baysitter!  Or DON’T COME!  i personally am not paying $60 a person for children to whine and run around my wedding even if I am related to them…can’t invite everyone!

Post # 9
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553 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I think you were harsh in dumping the best man. He had a legitimate reason for no being able to attend and I can see why he would be upset. I’m sure it would take less than 5 minutes to run through where he has to stand/do before the ceremony starts. I think your the ones being a bit rude and unreasonable in this case.

Post # 10
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729 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

@TheFutureMrsLamkin: My Fiance dad is already trying to change the way his tux looks. I’m like REALLY! why do you have to do this? We got the pin stripes like everyone wanted now you want to do more stuff to it like add a colored shirt. NO! leave it as is, PLEASE! For me?

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Heatherloveskenny:

Calm down! After Saturday it will all be over!!

As for the clueless girl, I would just nicely remind her to check her invitation.

For the Bridesmaid or Best Man, could he not get the day off or did he just not put it in early enough for it to be approved.

For the last person, did you allow them to come? We have a cut off two weeks before the wedding foir our venue so anyone who sends a card after September 10 will get a phone call saying “Sorry, no seat for you”

Post # 12
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2550 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m soo happy that we’re only having fam and a couple of friends. 

Ppl forget that a wedding isn’t a backyard party. 

Post # 13
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470 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@TheFutureMrsLamkin: I just don’t understand why people think no registry is tacky!  I can understand people being apprehensive about that if the bride and groom smoked crack or something. 

Post # 14
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87 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Assilem: OMG you just made me laugh so hard! “I can understand being apprehensive about that if the bride and groom smoked crack”

Bwahahahahahahaha

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