(Closed) rude RUDE biased terrible doctor!!!!! rant.

posted 6 years ago in Wellness
Post # 3
1077 posts
Bumble bee

@misshydra:  WOW. How infuriating! I would write a letter to the hospital she works in or whoever is above her. Your GP can decide to stop reccomending patients to this doctor, but she won’t see any real action unless you tell the group she actually works for. That is completely innapropriate, but sadly she has the right to refuse to do a medical procedure. However I’m pretty sure her practice would not be happy about her turning away a patient for such downright  close-minded reasons.

Post # 4
427 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I am so sorry you had to go through that ((HUGS!!!)) She had no right to tell you you need to wait until after you are married, it’s none of her business! I know it will take a while to see another specialist but because of how she acted I wouldn’t want to work with her. Definitely see if you can get another referral.

Post # 5
5296 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

Definitely report that shit. She’s there to give you medical advice, not pass judgement. 


I hope you can get a 2nd appt with a much better doctor soon!

Post # 7
7609 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

What an a-hole.  I hope you complain as well.  Here’s hoping you get in quickly with another specialist!

Post # 8
9142 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

It’s none of her business whether you are married or not.  I would have said “well, actually we secretly married a few weeks ago but we’re having our big wedding next year.”

Post # 9
232 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@misshydra:  I’m so sorry you went through this. I had a similar experience with an RE when I was younger and it still angers me when I think about it. I was humiliated. I’m so glad that you’re being proactive about your health and you don’t deserve to be treated that way. 

Post # 10
418 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

SO inappropriate! Her ONLY concern should be your MEDICAL issues and how to treat them. I hope you are able to find a GOOD doc soon and I would certainly bring this up with her superiors.

Post # 11
13010 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wow, that’s terrible.  Definitely find a new doctor – anyone who judges your choices shouldn’t get your time and money!

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