(Closed) Rude to wear your e-ring to a wedding when you're not yet married?

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Is it rude to wear your e-ring to a wedding if you're not yet married

    Yes, it's rude.

    It's only rude if your diamond is noticeably larger than the bride's

    It's not rude at all.

  • Post # 32
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @futuremrste: Never heard of that. I wonder where in the world she picked up such a strange idea! Wear your ring.

    Post # 33
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Whaaat? Uh, your friend is crazy. This is in no way rude.

    Post # 34
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    Bumble bee

    It’s rude of her to say that. Thats all I can think of!

    Post # 35
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    If she’s worried about the size of your ring, then by that logic every single female guest should remove her engagement ring.

    Post # 37
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Wear your ring with pride. She’s nuts forsaying that crap.

    Post # 38
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    Worker bee

    Have to agree with everyone else – in no way is it rude for an engaged woman to wear her engagement ring! It sounds like either your friend is nuts or the bride is jealous. How can she control what jewellery every single woman will wear at her wedding?! An UN-engaged woman might turn up wearing a bigger rock than the bride’s – are they going to ask her to take it off?! Ridiculous!

    Post # 39
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    Buzzing bee

    She’s insane and needs to get over herself. 

    Post # 40
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Um, unless you’re going up to the bride and screaming “My ring is bigger than yours,” I don’t see what the issue is.  It’s not rude to wear your engagement ring to a wedding. 

    Post # 41
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    Worker bee

    Someone asking you to remove your ring, a symbol of comitment and love at WEDDING, now THAT is rude. 

    Really wonder what planet some people are from Undecided

    Post # 42
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    abbie017 : Um, unless you’re going up to the bride and screaming “My ring is bigger than yours,” I don’t see what the issue is”

    YES. You should TOTALLY do that.

    Post # 43
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Lol I think the poll is unanimous. 

    On our wedding day a guest could wear a 3 ct stunner and I still don’t think it matters in the slightest. No one should ever feel threatened by another girl’s jewelry. 

    Post # 44
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    i definitely don’t thing it’s rude! maybe it’s a regional or cultural thing? i doubt it, but it’s possible 

    Post # 45
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    Sugar bee

    Whoever said that is woefully misinformed and being ridiculous. Wear your ring with pride and don’t give it another thought.

    Post # 46
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Um….I wore my e-ring to my Fiance sisters wedding. My center stone is 1.7ct, hers is about 0.5ct. I wore mine & showed it to people who asked with no shame. His sister was still the center of attention because she’s the bride. I mean really, out of all the people who will be attending the wedding, only about 10% will even ask to see your ring. Sounds like your friend has bigger issues.

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