(Closed) Rudest comment you've gotten

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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923 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

So far the only one I’ve gotten is “was it planned?” 

Granted, seeing as how that came from the seamstress doing the alterations on my wedding dress it might have been a valid question, but still who does that?

Post # 5
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217 posts
Helper bee

@Sugaree:  That’s horrible to say! I had some similar things said to me, “So when is he going to make you an honest woman?”

Or better yet, when I was 8 months and my face/hands/feet had swollen to the point of almost popping, “Wow, you look like the Michelin man!”

Post # 6
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1934 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Sugaree:  I’ve gotten the same comment a million times.  Granted, I was 3 months pregnant at our wedding, but it WAS planned, and either way, it’s no one’s business!

 

Post # 7
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923 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@morkiemama:  I’ll be 14.5 weeks at our wedding and it was planned.  We actually started TTC before getting engaged.  Yeah, we don’t always do things in the conventional order.

Post # 8
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1813 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

At the wedding BEFORE I was pregnant, one of the older guests went up to Darling Husband and gave him 100 Euros, 50 for Darling Husband, 50 for me and 50 for the baby. He persumed because we arranged a wedding in a short time ,and the fact I am “chunky” shall we say  that it must have been because I was pregnant.

Post # 9
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478 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@Sugaree:  You would not believe how many people have asked me this question. WTF? We’ve been married over a year, we’re not super young, etc… plus it’s no one’s business, but yes, it was planned! People amaze me.

Post # 10
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2011 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I post regularly on our April Babies board about my co worker who feels the need to ask inappropriae question and insult me on numerous occassions.

Last week it was a whisper in my ear to tell me im getting fat, then shouting at me across the office full of guys that my boobs are getting big!

 

 

Post # 11
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1026 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

A co-worker of mine is pregnant as well and is about a month ahead of me.  Another co-worker told me that although she knows that this co-worker is a month ahead of me, it looks like I am a month ahead of her! Nice.

Post # 12
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1245 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

“Are you sure it’s not twins?” or “No way you’re due in __ amount of weeks. You look like you’re about to pop any day now.”

Post # 13
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7296 posts
Busy Beekeeper

i’ve had most of the ones mentioned so far”

– “was it planned” – pretty much every single close friend and family member we told asked us this, and like a PP, we are not that young (early 30s) and married almost a year at the time we got pregnant!

– “how much weight have you gained”

– “are you sure you are not having twins”

– “you are SO BIG”

– “are you taking your prenatal vitamins” (yup, i’ve had a friend ask me this, i find it rude because it implies that i might be irresponsible with my prenatal care, why is it her place to ask these things, and this same person has asked many other similar type questions that always get under my skin)

 

Post # 14
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1934 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Sugaree:  Seriously!  We didn’t think it would happen so fast, being that I’m in my 30’s….but we KNEW what we were DOING!  Ugh!

Post # 15
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931 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Upon hearing I was in the second trimester: “Are you feeling better? Because your face has really cleared up. …. I knew you were pregnant because normally you have such nice skin.”

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m 9 weeks and one of the ladies I work with walked up to me and rubbed my belly and was like “wow are you sure your not having twins” ah no I’m just had a belly before I got pregnant but thanks

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