(Closed) ruined moments

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
2522 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Sorry, first off, lol.  Stuff has happened to us like this.  Usually we’re just so busy trying to fix whatever happened that we end up forgetting about what we were doing or are time crunch so we’re like quickly moving on.  But if we have time and one of us is disinterested after this, we’ll just cuddle or start talking about something.  We like to debate so we’ll just do that.  Or we’ll lighten the mood by joking around or something, and by doing that it disperses awkardness/passion.

Post # 4
1177 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

We just laugh it off, really. Sometimes I enjoy those memories a lot more than when everything goes perfect!

Post # 5
578 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

This kinda happened to me last night but different scenerio.   We went to bed taking about how we both wanted some and then my brother came home and the cat  wouldnt get off the bed πŸ™

Post # 7
2091 posts
Buzzing bee

This happened to us last night! We were fooling around and then my mister gives me this hilarious “crazy eyes” look for fun. It was so funny and we laughed forever, but it totally ruined the sexy moment and we went to sleep instead.

Post # 8
3482 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

We usually laugh ourselves silly and then resume what we started.

Post # 9
699 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@linguo42: Ditto. πŸ™‚

Post # 10
2442 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

That’s life.  : )  Some sexy, fun and exciting moments become ruined, but some boring routine moments become sexy.  It all balances out.

Post # 12
297 posts
Helper bee

Once, we visited a lake at dusk…it was just the two of us, and I had a small blanket in my car.  The moment was very beautiful so we decided to try to make love on the blanket on the sand next to the water.  After about two minutes, we noticed a swarm of mosquitos hovering around us. About 10 were on my legs, 5 on his head, a bunch on my neck, etc.  Yup, that pretty much killed the moment!

Post # 13
2792 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Awww sometimes there’s just no saving the moment! I would’ve been so aggravated in your scenario that I wouldn’t have tried to rebound it either!

Sometimes you can though! Last night things were getting pretty hot and heavy and somehow the dog (who is not allowed in our bedroom) got in the door and started licking FI’s foot at the end of the bed. Ewww!! This proceeded to turn into a giggle fest, kicking the dog out, and then we couldn’t get back in our comfy position in bed and I swear it was like we had never had sex before haha! We just couldn’t get our heads/limbs whatever in the right spots!! Then every time Fiance approached me to kiss me I bursted out laughing. It took us literally 15 minutes to get a hold of ourselves as we were both having giggle fits, but the moment was eventually saved and it turned into a really good night πŸ˜‰

Post # 14
4546 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That sucks! I know when something happens like that to us we both laugh it off! Sometimes the moment just can’t be saved and it’s much better to laugh about it than to feel sad πŸ™‚

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