(Closed) Rumors led to physical fight with Future SIL – wanted to end life

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 77
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1326 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I agree with the others that say it’s time to get help for yourself. Call a local hospital, or just go to the emergency room. Feeling suicidal is an emergency and hurting others so badly is a symptom of much bigger problems.

I pray you choose to take care of your mental health, first and foremost, and learn behaviors that are healthier. It will be a long, hard road, but you can get through it.

 

Post # 78
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491 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

 

I would have wanted to knock her teeth out but for the sake of being an adult I would have just left. Shit happens, you learn, and you grow from situations like this. Just realize that if you marry this man you are marrying the ENTIRE family including his now toothless sister,

Post # 79
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259 posts
Helper bee

I am definitely going to get some flack for this comment but… Bravo. I would definitely have done the same. No, hitting is never okay. But spreading harmful rumours like that is worse.

That kind of rumour can last for your entire life. They’ll always think badly of you for that. Her black eye will go away within a few days but what she’s done to you is permanent. What she’s done can ruin a person. Hitting was definitely not the right move, but just reading your post I’m full of anger that someone would even say that to you in the first place.

You have my total sympathy and support in this. What does your Fiance have to say about the situation?

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