Post # 1
hi there bees ! just wanted an advice from you guys.. what you will do if your fiancee offered you to marry him ,, and you guys are settling everything in place ,, and suddenly after a month , he changed his mind not to marry you and break up with you ( considering you guys are working in the same company ) ??
as a woman its painful deep inside,, of course !
are you going to quit your job , for you to forget him ??
or remain working with him and act like nothing happens??
thank you guys !!
Post # 3
Aw you poor thing. Break ups can be hard especially when they mess you around but hes treated you terribly. If I was you look for another job and have a fresh start. He sounds like he hasnt a clue what he wants and that’s not fair on you.you deserve someone whos going to fully commit to you.
Post # 4
Wow, just wow. I don’t understand some people. Does everyone there know about the engagement? If so, I think he should be the one to feel uncomfortable if everyone knows what a jerk he was treating you like that. I would have a very hard time pretending that nothing happened. I hope he quits.
Post # 5
I’m sorry you’re going through this. I would not quit my job. I would look for a new one like a PP said. It’s going to be very hard dealing with him on a daily basis but I would try to ignore him.
Post # 6
@anna_met: I agree with @BriansBride: . Why should you be the one to look for another job? He has treated you shamefully. He is the one who should be hiding his face and looking for a new job.
You have done nothing wrong. Keep your job if you want. Give your ex the “cold shoulder” whenever you are near him. Tell people the truth if they ask.
Post # 7
You poor thing! I can’t imagine how painful this must be for you but don’t add to your pain by becoming unemployed. If anyone should quit their job it should be him! If your coworkers ask you, just tell them the truth, I promise you any normal person will side with you on this one. Maybe he’ll be the one who quits and if not, keep your job and search for a new one in your spare time.
Post # 8
hi there guys !! thank you so so much to all of you..
this happens to me before, yah all of you are absolutely right, even i wanted to keep working, it’s so hard to overcome , go to work, be able to see him everyday and pretend like nothing happens..
my long time ex , offered marriage to me twice , everything was in place, and i am so happy that time, he planned and offerred marriage to me twice and he changed his mind twice as well .. its like i’ve been stabbed by a sharp knife, its so painful and i can’t bare the pain , its killing me..
all my colleagues asked me , i tell them the truth but my ex tell them the opposite, he lied to them..
i quit my job and until now it’s been quite difficult for me to find one, i’m dealing with hard times until now, but being away from him, made me feel at peace.. and i will just take life for a fresh start.. god bless you all ..thank you so much..
Post # 9
and for a note : he offered marriage to me , but he told me that he wants to marry another girl at the same time.. he told me, the other girl have something that i do not possessed and i have something that the other girl do not possessed thats why he needs us both..
my manager have a sit with me and we had a conversation about what happened , my manager cares for me because i’m starting to get sick that time.. i can’t even do my job well..
that time i share my story with my manager but when my ex discovered that i have a chat with my manager about us.. he gets screwed, he get mad to me and tell everybody that i was a bad girl for telling my manager about it..
my manager hated him, but my ex said : no one could ever remove me from my job or else i will make problem to anyone..
this is the reason why i was the one who quit my job..