(Closed) Rushing into Marriage?

posted 5 years ago in Christian
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

How old are you?

I agree with you, you really want to give it time. At least a year, and ideally at least 2. This is a bit of a “do as a I say not as I do” because I got engaged in under a year (about 9 months), but then we were already mid 20s. But your relationship sounds really unstable, you need a decent amount of time to get to know each other properly. You are right, marriage won’t fix problems. Give yourselves time as bf/gf first.

Good on your for wanting to follow Christ more! If you want to wait from marriage (from here on) then you really want to watch your physical relationship. To get “lost in the moment” you need to do a few things, like be alone for a decent time and be already getting really physical. Set yourselves physical boundaries if you wish to avoid that in future.

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@anon23:  This guy sounds like bad news. He’s extremely insecure and rather needy. After a MONTH of dating, seriously?

He sounds immature and his behavior would really creep me out. I like a man who is sure of himself… this guy is the total opposite.

It’s like he isn’t spending any time enjoying the present and actually getting to know you. Maybe he feels guilty for sleeping with you… I don’t know.

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