(Closed) sad about sister

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
87 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Hi Starry,I’m sorry that you’re going through this with your sisters, I’m sure it must be very difficult. Have you discussed your feelings with your sisters?If so, and they are still behaving that way, then I hate to say it, but it is probably best if they are not in your wedding party. You don’t really want/need that type of negative energy that close to you on your wedding day. I know it’s a hard pill to swallow but in the end it may work out for the best.I hope that you and your sisters are eventually able to heal your relationship. Keep your head up and try not to let this get you down Smile

Post # 4
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7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

It IS tough, but look at it this way: If they’re being so dramatic, maybe it’s for the best that they’ve ducked out of being bridesmaids. Can you ask them to fulfill another role? Singing or doing a reading or something? Or making a toast at dinner? I would try to find a different role for them that is less eyes-on, if they’re using weight as an excuse.

I am so so so glad that you have your two friends to stand beside you, support you, and love and encourage you through the whole process of planning a wedding and getting married! It’s not easy, and you are so blessed to have great friends, even if your sisters are acting immature about it all. 🙂

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