- 5 years ago
- Wedding: March 2013
Hey there bridal community, girls i decided to join this blog bc i think i need some support and ideas from people that are in my place with wedding planning and all the drama this means…
I need your opinion… I lost my maid of honor.. I met my Maid/Matron of Honor 5 years ago at uni, she was very shy and reserved but then with time she became more outgoing and after a while we were best friends.. she supported me when i went thru bad times but i always felt she wasnt entirely honest with me, she was very misterious and would always say what u want to hear, not the truth. A year and a half ago, I met the one, we got engaged 3 months after and then moved in together, hes the love of my life. Everyone in our group began getting married and even the single ones got bfs, so she was always complaining about being alone.
More than once she said these comments making me feel bad when she rubbed on my face that our friend’s fiance gave her a huge diamod ring, he was rich etc comparing to mine. I think since we didnt spend much time together bc of work and my bf we were apart.. even months without seeing eachother.. but i refused to accept it so i picked her as my Maid/Matron of Honor. A month ago, i made a huge mistake i drank a lot since i hadnt seen my friends for a long time and I dont remember what i said. The point is that a mutual friend told her i said horrible things about her and she sent me an e mail saying she doesnt want to be my friend anymore, she said she wanted me out of her life forever, that i live a fantasy world in fake happiness and that unlike me, she doesnt need a man to be happy and save her.. she unfriend me on fb and deleted me from bbm, etc..
Im so depressed, and feel alone.. 🙁 i lost a lot of interest on the wed plan and everyone at the party will ask about her, why shes not there, why shes not my Maid/Matron of Honor.. etc..