(Closed) Sad News Today

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: if you were me what would you do?
    go : (142 votes)
    96 %
    not go : (4 votes)
    3 %
    other : (2 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 47
    Member
    4753 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I think it’s rude to disrespect the wishes of the family surrounding the ill person. I would send my blessings, and tell them I’d love to visit and hopefully soon.

    Post # 48
    Member
    9481 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I would go.  It’s your grandmother.  Don’t listen to what anyone says, please.  Please be careful driving with the weather this weekend if you do go!  (hugs) Your grandmother is in my thoughts and prayers.

    Post # 49
    Member
    7642 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Trust your dad, not your aunts.

    If your dad said not to go, that would be different. But since your dad wants you do go, trust him and to it. The aunts have already mishandled telling your dad and your grandfather, so IMO they can’t be trusted.

    Post # 50
    Member
    10363 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Grief causes all sorts of awful family dynamics. Tread carefully – make sure you and your grandma’s needs are being met.

    Post # 51
    Member
    3172 posts
    Sugar bee

    Definently go see her

    Post # 52
    Member
    283 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I just lost my grandma last Thursday.  My dad had 5 brothers.  She lived in a town about 5 hours away, and he wanted me to go see her.  Im glad I did because a week later she died.  I had a know it all cousin trying to tell people they couldn’t go up to the hospital and  to limit the visits.  Most of my other family thought she was plum ridiculous.  If you really care about seeing your grandmother, you shouldn’t let anyone’s opinions stop you

    Post # 53
    Member
    1686 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I didn’t get to say goodbye to my grandpa. He died suddenly and it was unexpected. He was my best friend and If there is anything on earth I could wish, it would be to have had a final moment with him. GO, you will regret it forever if you don’t.

    Post # 54
    Hostess
    2555 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I would absolutely go.  Your dad is right — god forbid she passes away and you didn’t take the opportunity to see her.  

    Post # 55
    Member
    294 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    (Hugs) they’re probably just overwhelmed And trying to save you hurt. If I were you I could go just for your own peace of mind and to be able to say goodbye in case the worst happens. Good thoughts and prayers to you and your grandma though <33

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