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posted 9 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
3441 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I am so sorry. *Hugs*

I hope that what may seem like a setback now will bring greater things. He could get a new job soon and make more money than he even is now.

Post # 4
3765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Oh hun, BIG HUGS to you!  When one door closes, another door opens!  Hang in there ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
2051 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2006

I’m really sorry. ๐Ÿ™ Postponing isn’t the worst thing in the world, though! “Not now” doesn’t mean “never.”

Try and be there for your husband, and let him be there for you too. Being on the same team is the best part of being married.

Post # 6
2430 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

There is no easy way to deal with setbacks and delays when TTC, especailly when you’ve already waited so long.  I am sending positive vibes your way, and hopefully things will work out soon. 

Post # 7
470 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m sorry. That must be so disappointing after waiting so long to get to this point. Like the others said, it’s Not Right Now, not, Never. I’m sure your husband is just as disapointed as you, so I hope you can support each other as you figure it out. 

Post # 8
254 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Sea_bass:  Oh I’m so sorry! That would be heart breaking on more than one level. I hope things turn around and you’ll be back to join us soon.

Post # 11
4053 posts
Honey bee

@Sea_bass:  You’re kidding =( I’m so sad for you =( HUGS!!!!!!!!!!

Post # 13
1183 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@Sea_bass:  Oh no.  I’m so sorry.  I think it’s totally normal to be mad and angry with him for a little while, even though it’s not his fault.  At least you’re recognizing that emotion, which is a good step.  One of my best friends told me that if you tried to hide that anger or ignore it, it *would* come out in some other way (like getting mad at your DH about something else or just acting more distant), so I think the way you feel is healthy (of course, as long as it passes!).  I would certainly be sooo disappointed.  I’m sorry. ๐Ÿ™

Post # 14
400 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Aww so sorry for you! I hope something else better comes a long for him whatever your situation might be. Good wishes for you and your husband

Post # 15
824 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

So sorry to hear that! As a PP said when one door closes another one opens, there may be things that you don’t understand right now…I believe everything happens for a reason ๐Ÿ™‚ I know that may not help, and I completely understand your anger and frustration.

You should go treat yourself to something nice, maybe it will help even if only a little bit.

Post # 16
789 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

((hugs)) I’m so sorry. I hope things get better soon.

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