Post # 1
Tittle says it all, really.
My husband just told me some very bad news about his job and as a result we have to put off TTC.
I want to crawl into a hole and cry right now.
I have been waiting for years until we could start trying and now we have to stop. I can’t even support my husband because I am so mad and angry at him (even though its not really his fault).
Post # 3
I am so sorry. *Hugs*
I hope that what may seem like a setback now will bring greater things. He could get a new job soon and make more money than he even is now.
Post # 4
Oh hun, BIG HUGS to you! When one door closes, another door opens! Hang in there 🙂
Post # 5
I’m really sorry. 🙁 Postponing isn’t the worst thing in the world, though! “Not now” doesn’t mean “never.”
Try and be there for your husband, and let him be there for you too. Being on the same team is the best part of being married.
Post # 6
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There is no easy way to deal with setbacks and delays when TTC, especailly when you’ve already waited so long. I am sending positive vibes your way, and hopefully things will work out soon.
Post # 7
I’m sorry. That must be so disappointing after waiting so long to get to this point. Like the others said, it’s Not Right Now, not, Never. I’m sure your husband is just as disapointed as you, so I hope you can support each other as you figure it out.
Post # 8
@Sea_bass: Oh I’m so sorry! That would be heart breaking on more than one level. I hope things turn around and you’ll be back to join us soon.
Post # 9
@roxy821: Thanks.. I don’t even care about the money, we have enough money and the baby would be here in over 9 months.. Not tomorrow.. I want to cry.
Thank you! I hope you are doing well!!!
Yeah I now you are right, but its so hard to put it in practice!
Thank you, I hope the vibes reach me. If not I will go and drink a tumbler of vodka..
Post # 11
@Sea_bass: You’re kidding =( I’m so sad for you =( HUGS!!!!!!!!!!
Post # 12
@ChuckNorris: Oh man I wish I were…
Post # 13
@Sea_bass: Oh no. I’m so sorry. I think it’s totally normal to be mad and angry with him for a little while, even though it’s not his fault. At least you’re recognizing that emotion, which is a good step. One of my best friends told me that if you tried to hide that anger or ignore it, it *would* come out in some other way (like getting mad at your DH about something else or just acting more distant), so I think the way you feel is healthy (of course, as long as it passes!). I would certainly be sooo disappointed. I’m sorry. 🙁
Post # 14
Aww so sorry for you! I hope something else better comes a long for him whatever your situation might be. Good wishes for you and your husband
Post # 15
So sorry to hear that! As a PP said when one door closes another one opens, there may be things that you don’t understand right now…I believe everything happens for a reason 🙂 I know that may not help, and I completely understand your anger and frustration.
You should go treat yourself to something nice, maybe it will help even if only a little bit.
Post # 16
((hugs)) I’m so sorry. I hope things get better soon.