(Closed) Sad Sad Sad

posted 9 years ago in TTC
Post # 17
Member
2226 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

@Sea_bass:  Oh, sweetie, I”m so sorry.  *HUGS*

Post # 18
Member
2377 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

That sucks. Timing is everything, and your little bundle of joy will come at the right moment and it will all work together.

Hugs!

Post # 20
Bee
6469 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

View original reply
@Sea_bass:  I’m so sorry to hear it. πŸ™

Post # 22
Member
602 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

well… you can still chart and learn about your cycles incase something is up….

 

plus, I’ve been thinking lately how conceiving over the next month or 2 means I would be super huge pregnant during the summer when its hot = no fun….

 

Hopefully you’ll find a little light in the darkness…. HUGS!!

Post # 24
Member
821 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

View original reply
@Sea_bass:  Im so sorry.  I know its hard but I am a strong believer that every thing happens for a reason.  Sending lots of positive thoughts your way πŸ™‚

Post # 26
Member
758 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Perhaps after things settle down and the shock wears off, both of you will have time to assess the situation, you can have your points clear and convince him to do what you feel is best for you guys.  Or vice versa.  Perhaps he will see the light.  Either way I am sorry, it is not an easy place to be.

Post # 27
Member
821 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

View original reply
@Sea_bass:  I know its difficult I was in a very similar situation earlier in the year.  When we set our wedding date back in 2010 for Jan 2012 we agreed to start TTC straight afterwards, however after the wedding DH wasn’t quite there yet so it got put off.  πŸ™

He originally wanted the end of this year! But we decided together on August (now).

I was telling my Mother-In-Law who I am very close to and SIL said just get pregnant without him knowing.  I said I would never ever do that.  When and if we have children we will be on the same page.  I want him to want a child as much as I do.

I actually got him to watch The Great Sperm Race doco with me (he used to think it will happen straight away when we want it to as it has for all his friends) and I can’t say that changed his mind, but a few weeks after watching it he said he was ready. πŸ™‚

Post # 28
Member
2161 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m so sorry.  I know what it feels like to want a baby so bad and have it delayed.   We got some pretty serious infertility news last Dec and it looked like our dreams of having our baby were shattered.   We’ve since been to a fertility clinic and have had our cycle canceled twice and now on hold until late fall because of yet another health issue of DH.   I know it’s beyond DH’s control, but these past 9 months have been hell.

I feel like I have been living in grief for almost a year and it really sucks.   I’m not sure how I would do it differently, we have been waiting for genetic testing, then other testing, and appointments, plus worrying about his health so it’s been hard to get to the back of my mind.

It sounds cliche, but try to stay busy.   That’s what gets me through.   Ther 234890324 baby posts on this website makes it incredibly difficult to come here, so I have gone from being here daily to about once or twice a month to check in with friends.   Being surrounded by baby topics makes it even harder to heal.

Post # 29
Member
1182 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Aww, I’d be really bummed and angry too. I’m sorry.

The topic ‘Sad Sad Sad’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors