- 6 years ago
- Wedding: March 2012
I just want to cry! My mom has been the biggest issue in this whole thing.
She never got the okay to have my wedding at the church I grew up in, so now I can’t have it there because of scheduling conflicts!
She threatened to not pay for my reception because she was upset that she went with me to go look at my bridal gown.
My aunt all of the sudden (this woman travels the world singing) can’t sing a non-secular song at my wedding so she wont’ perform. I honestly think it’s because it’s a “white people” song. I feel like if you can sing, you should be able to sing the phone book and move people.
Mother told me that I was doing a horrible job planning because no one send out invitations two months in advance to a wedding.
Now that I am pregnant she is upset that I haven’t got established yet. I’ll be 34 in July and I have a masters degree. So I don’t get it. Plus she’s been bugging me for years to get pregnant cause she is 70 now!
I am sick of worrying about center pieces. At this point I don’t even care. But I have to keep going because I just want to remember the good things! Because I am only doing this once!
They should seriously provide wedding counseling services at bridal shows. They vend for everything else, why not that. I will say that this site has been the most helpful of any wedding site!
I have tried to tell her that I only need to surround myself with positive people and she told me to save that B.S for my friends because she’s allowed to be this way because of my mother. I kid you not, before this whole thing, I honestly considered my mom my best friend. But she has nothing positive to say.