Post # 1
My SIL offered to give us her bassinet for us to keep the baby in our bedroom, and it got me thinking…
Darling Husband and I have decided that we want to keep the baby in our room at least for the first 6 months, but the baby will grow out of the bassinet around 2 or 3 months.
Should we just bring the crib into the bedroom from the beginning? Or should we get this pack n play: http://www.fisher-price.com/en_US/brands/babygear/products/51903 ? OR is the pack n play just for napping and playing?
I am deathly afraid of SIDS and want to choose the safest option.
Experienced Moms please help. 🙂
Post # 2
If you have space in your room for the crib, great. If not, a pack n play is what many, many of my friends have done (and I plan on doing).
As far as I know, there hasn’t been research done on WHICH place to sleep is best, other than in parent’s room and on the kid’s back. I don’t think there is really a difference between a bassinett/crib/pack n play other than personal preference, length of time you can use is and how big they are.
Post # 3
A pack n play is just fine, though honestly I know my son never slept that well in a pack n play. We had a cradle for him for the first 4 months and he then was in his crib.
Post # 4
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Evie19: We’re getting a co-sleeper for the first few months. It hooks up to the side of the bed so I can just roll over and breastfeed in the middle of the night.
Post # 5
I would suggest moving the crib into your room for the first six months. I’m sure the pack and play would be fine but I don’t know if it’s such a great idea to ask your baby to sleep in the same place it is supposed to play in while awake. Babies/kids like routine and setting a separate sleeping space and play/awake space early on might be good. How would you expect your baby at a year old to know when sleeping time is if it’s in a place where you expect it to play? Seems confusing.
Post # 6
Thanks for the replies everyone! The crib would fit in our room, it would just be a bit cramped I suppose.
LyndaButterfly: What you said makes a lot of sense…I see how a pack n play could be problematic when trying to develop sleep patterns.
So there is nothing unsafe about a bassinet if we go with that for the first few months?
Post # 7
My son was in a bassinet the first few months and was fine. My mom, who gave me the bassinet (it has been used by every baby in her family), said that babies like the small and coziness of the bassinet rather than a big, empty crib. I remember moving him into a crib when he was 3 or 4 months old.
We were big into routine with my son at an early age. I guess that’s old fashioned thinking but it worked well for us.
Post # 8
I had the same thought process. Also we are moving soon (before the baby is born). Current plan is we have a full sized bed in nursery we mostly sleep in and she’s in the crib there for the first 6 months. Then we move out to ‘our room’ and she stays and it’s a dedicated nursery. Sort of a variation of what you are doing. Weirdly our clothes right now are in the guest room. It’s not that important to me that we sleep immediatly adjacent to our clothing storage.
Post # 9
For the first 6 months, baby is still small enough to fit into something smaller than a full size pack n play. Our Dear Daughter slept in a Travel Lite Pack n Play up until this past week! The pnp was great, as it meant that whenever we traveled, we could just bring her bed with us — so even in unfamiliar surroundings, she was always sleeping in her own bed. She just moved to the crib a few days ago.
So if space is an issue, there is no problem using something smaller like a bassinet. I do recommend the travel pnp like we had, though, if you foresee yourself bringing baby anywhere that would necessitate not sleeping at home. FWIW, our baby never *played* in the pnp … just slept in it. So no issues there.
Post # 10
Evie19: Dear Daughter is 8 weeks and sleeps in the napper of our pnp in our room. When she outgrows it she will go to her crib in the nursery or the regular portion of the pnp in our room depending on our comfort level.
Post # 11
These replies have been helpful ladies, thanks!
Post # 12
We set up a nursery nook in our bedroom with a full crib. Guess where baby sleeps… the mamaroo right nect to me. She looked so tiny in the huge crib and it was far away and I am having a tough recovery so it was hard to get up out if bed for her. We also had her in our pack and play against the bed for a few days but she gets such bad gas that the incline of the mamaroo is better.
I wish we had splurged on the cosleeper that attaches to the bed now but it’s only a few months. If I did it again I’d definitely go that route or a bassinet right against the bed.
Post # 13
Yeah it really does seem cumbersome to bring the big crib into our bedroom…I have a friend who had twin girls last year, and she kept them in bassinets for 6 months. I am going to ask to borrow one of her bassinets since she isn’t using it anymore. I guess it must be bigger than my SIL’s since she said hers fits up until 2 months old only.