(Closed) Safety in the anonymity…

posted 8 years ago in Weddingbee
  • poll: How would you feel if someone involved in your wedding saw all of your posts?
    Ashamed : (0 votes)
    Embarrassed : (10 votes)
    17 %
    Happy that everything's out in the open : (7 votes)
    12 %
    Scared : (2 votes)
    3 %
    Other? : (39 votes)
    67 %
  • Post # 3
    11325 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    I voted “other” because none of those really apply…. I wouldn’t be scared or embarrassed and there isn’t anything to be “out in the open.” I’m a pretty across-the-board honest person so there is nothing I have said on here that I’d mind people I actually know reading. 

    The *only* exceptions to to this are my Fiance (and just because there are pics of me in my dress and my accessories and I want them to be a surprise!) and my parents/family (and just those posts in the “intimacy” section… I have never shared THAT much but any info in that arena is too much for mom and dad) 🙂

    Post # 4
    145 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    @NYE Gal: were u talkn mess about them on ur posts? lol! @ the end of the day anything u put on the web is open to the public (including ur fam and friends) so… free speech it is!

    Post # 5
    875 posts
    Busy bee

    I voted other because my posts pretty much reflect my opinion and I don’t think they would surprise my friends at all!

    Post # 6
    4485 posts
    Honey bee

    None of them really apply. Yes the info is out in the open for anyone to read, being a public online forum, but unless your attendants and family intentionally and specifically seek out wedding boards to read (most do not unless they are a bride who is planning), it’s a non-issue and highly unlikely they would even stumble on it in the first place.

    Post # 8
    1161 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    My sister (MOH) sometimes reads my posts, but I tend to not post anything that I wouldn’t want her to see.  I can’t imagine I’d ever rant about her.

    Post # 9
    18637 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I never really said anything about planning on here that would have made me scared if people read it.  The intimacy stuff may be a bit more than I want IRL people to know about though.

    Post # 10
    5388 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I selected other. I would like for certain elements of my wedding to be a surprise, so I wouldn’t like it if the surprise was ruined. I have been honest on here, especially with my vents, so if anyone stumbles upon my post they will get the truth. I feel that if they stumble on it, and it pertains to them, then it was meant for them to hear/read it.


    Post # 11
    1518 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I put other also. I prob wouldn’t have liked people seeing the dresses and decor and planning ahead of time though. I only have had a couple vents but it wasn’t anything I believed to be out of line or that i wouldn’t defend. 

    Post # 12
    4419 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I voted other because I wouldn’t be scared or embarrassed, and I haven’t said anything here that I haven’t said before, so there’s nothing to come out in the open.  It wouldn’t bother me at all if anyone read what I wrote here.

    I don’t write anything online that I would be embarrassed about if someone read it, because I know that nothing is private or anonymous online.

    Post # 13
    6597 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I put other – I am indifferent!

    Everything that is on here everyone in my wedding knows about! My wedding planning was almost a zero in the drama category and didn’t post anything I wouldn’t want anyone to see!

    Post # 14
    120 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Other and no i would not be embarrassed. I’m always first to admit when I am wrong. And nothing on my posts about my wedding or parties involved are not true.

    Post # 15
    7081 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2009

    Other- everyone knows I live here and I think they are supportive!

    Post # 16
    499 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I voted other because it doesn’t really matter to me either way. I have a pretty strict policy of not putting anything on the internet that I’d be ashamed to have attached to my name. Because it’s always safest to assume it all will be found. That way if it is, nothing is lost!

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