- 8 years ago
Okay, so some of you might remember my last post a couple of weeks ago(Do I have the right to be upset?) because my very close friend’s daughter chose the same date to get married as my son and FDIL who announced their date a year ago. The girl sent out Facebook Save-The-Date Cards to all our mutual friends (and ME) as soon as she chose the date. Anyway, now my FDIL is sending out her STD magnets this week with their engagement photos and wedding website on them. She called me this morning and asked me if she should send her Save-The-Date Cards to my friend whose daughter will be getting married the same day (and a few of their relatives who were also already on our list). Obviously they won’t come, but do we send them anyway or just send a “courtesy” invitation to let them know they still are important to us? I doubt this situation is in the ettiquette books!!!