(Closed) same face … destined to be

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
3082 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

My best friend in hs used to date guys that could pass for her brother lol though they lasted a couple years they weren’t meant to be. Also my previous ex once looked at our reflection in the mirror and said ” look were brother and sister ” ha so weird but also not destined to be. My husband looks near opposite from me so hopefully that saying will not work for me again 🙂 .

I remember hearing that couples that have the same color hair are considered.”cuter” . Don’t know how true that is, or where I heard it though.

Post # 4
2481 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Since I have no intention of turning into a bearded lady, it is fair to say that DH and I look very different. Our hair is totally different too – his has waves, mine is absolutely straight – but since we’ve been together for ages and ages, I think this particular theory is flawed!

Post # 5
8469 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@anna_met:  I don’t think looks are a good way to determine a couple’s compatibility.

Post # 6
12257 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@anna_met:  DH and I got mistaken for siblings on our honeymoon. True story.

Post # 7
635 posts
Busy bee

We’ll both look the same when we’re 80.

Post # 8
889 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

@anna_met:  I had never heard this, but I know this couple who they absolutely look like brother and sister, and let me tell you… it is kind of creepy. 

Post # 9
3555 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

My FI and I have identically shaped (but different sized) hands and feet  and similar body frames (yay German heritage), but in terms of our faces we don’t look that similar. I really don’t think looks are a good way to judge compatibility.

Post # 10
6361 posts
Bee Keeper

It’s been proven scientifically that people are attracted to others with similar facial proportions, like distance between the eyes, angularity, face shape, etc.

FI and I don’t look similar on the surface, but in some photos you can see that in many ways many of my facial features are close to what you would expect the “girlified version” of his corresponding features to be like. And, I already knew about myself that I had certain preferences for men’s faces that related to that… for example, we both have angular facial features, and my entire life I’ve always been unattracted to men with “rounded” facial features.

Post # 11
883 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’ve never dated anyone who looks like they’re related to me. I’m not into incest nor would I sleep with someone who looked like me, gross.

Post # 12
842 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@anna_met:  Uhm, no. I don’t think anyone is ‘destined to be’ with anyone else, because fairytales are not real and I’m too old to be reading crap like Twilight. If people really were destined to be together then it would be because they have a strong connection, shared interests, and a deep understanding of the other person. Not because they look like brother and sister. 

ETA: And what the hell is a face aura? 

Post # 14
1312 posts
Bumble bee

I’m also Asian (Chinese to be exact) and they do say that couples who have slightly similar features have “couple faces”. 

My SO and I are an interracial couple though, and we don’t look anything alike at all. 😛  But I have read that people are generally attracted to those who are a similar “level of attractiveness” as themselves, but SO would say that it’s not true for us because he always says I’m more attractive than he is.  I don’t really agree, but he’s entitled to his opinion. 😛

Post # 15
2069 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I watched a documentary all about how generally people are more attracted to those who look like them. and i think this is totally true. my dream men are blond hair, blue eyes, baby faces (um hello, that is ME). BUT my fiance is half japanese and has a really handsome face that is very very different from my own. i love him to pieces, think he’s super dreamy and think we’ll be together forever, even though he isn’t the boy version of me. ha.

Post # 16
10509 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2011

@Glenda_the_good_witch:  That’s a bit of a jump, I don’t think anyone here is into incest.

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