(Closed) Same shoes?

posted 5 years ago in Shoes
Post # 3
11422 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

@Girasole:  Are the dresses long or short? Can you post pics of the shoes she is asking you to wear, along with the ones you would like to wear instead?

Post # 4
1938 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@Girasole:  Honestly, if you can’t afford them you CANNOT affort them! Don’t buy something you can’t afford just because she is being wierd about shoes. I told me BM’s I just wanted them to wear nude shoes and it turned out fine! 

Just for reference. 

Talk to her about how it makes you feel uncomfortable. 

Post # 5
114 posts
Blushing bee

If I were you I would just drop the subject and show up wearing the alternate shoes you found. I would think somebody wouldn’t even notice when they’re busy having fun at their own wedding. Plus just on principle I hate it when other people try to tell me how to spend my own money. Last time I was in a wedding I had to wear the dreaded *silver shoes* …I bought the cheapest pair I could find and afterwards promptly gifted them to another friend who had to be a silver shoe bridesmaid 😀

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