Post # 1
So we are going to do sand instead of unity candles. When searching for a set, I noticed that most are 4 piece, with 3 smaller cylinders and a big one. Why 3 ? I thought we were each supposed to pour 1 color… who does 2 and who does 1? Confused, lol
Post # 3
I believe the third is for the officiant to use. When we were talking about it with our officiant she said she could add a third color herself and that it’s seen as a foundation for the marriage before you two would pour the colors in, usually a religious foundation.