- 5 years ago
So my ex-FI left and I’m kinda….needy. Ha! For personal reasons, I do NOT do the whole casual sex thing (that’s no offense to anyone who does), and I only like toys with other people. I don’t exactly have many choices for dating or getting to know someone where I am now (it’s also waaay too soon), and I am dying! Lol.
The ex was never really active and we would go a month to a month and half without anything…..ya…..sux. And when we DID have sex…..it lasted 10 minutes at the most. Soooo…my question is what do I do to satisfy myself? Are toys the only thing I can use? I’m usually an open person but I am soooo embarassed asking for advice on a public forum. But hey! Gotta love anonymity. 🙂