- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
We sent out save the dates out back in the beginning of September and had no issues except with one that got returned to us in the mail as ‘undeliverable.’ I had my Maid/Matron of Honor contact this friend initially to get his address and after we received it back I have tried to contact him a few times to get an updated, accurate address. He was a pretty close friend in high school and we have kept in touch. I know he has seen the messages because Facebook logs this and so does his iPhone… but for a few weeks he has neglected to respond.
He has just went through a bad breakup, has no job, and is trying to make it on his own in California (we are from NY). I almost feel like maybe this is his way of telling me he isn’t interested in attending the wedding anymore…
I am a little sad because our mutual best friend is going to be in the wedding and I guess I didn’t expect this at all. Should I continue to badger him or at this point should I just let it go?