(Closed) Save the Date Etiquette (May need to break the rule)

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@nleemd:  How good of a friend is he? I would definitely have a one on one with him and express your concerns. Tell him you’d really like him to be there to help you celebrate but are concerned his behavior may get out of hand. We can’t control other people’s actions its a gamble. good luck!

Post # 5
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3265 posts
Sugar bee

@nleemd:  Unless you are doing a through background check on everyone invited then the possibility exists that any of your guests are involved in activities you don’t approve of.

Do you have reason to suspect that he will ruin the wedding?

 

 

Post # 6
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496 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Hmph. Uninviting someone is a pretty drastic option, so you probably should speak to him first. Who knows, maybe it will be the kick in the pants needed for him to realise he has an alcohol problem. Still, personally I’d only extend the invite if he promises not to drink at your wedding or the night before. Then ask someone to keep an eye on him and get them to ask him to leave if he can’t keep his word. If he has a problem with alcohol he may not be able to stick to just one drink, better for him not to drink at all.

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