Post # 1

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Busy bee
Okay I know this is probably the millionth thread on this, but we are debating on when to send out our save the dates. Our wedding is Sept 19, 2015. Its either within the next couple weeks.. or end of jan/feb. The only reason I want to send them soon is because our engagement pictures were just taken and are fall themed and I dont want to send them in the middle of winter with a fall themed picture. Yes I have slight OCD and it bothers me lol…
Pretty much all of our guests are local. Maybe 2 or 3 out of towners. So I know 10 months out is alittle long. I dont want them to get thrown aside and forgotten about. Any advice?
Post # 2

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Bumble bee
People will probably disagree with me, but i never can see the logical behind waiting to send save the dates. why not just send now? guests don’t have to respond or decide until invitation time.
Post # 3

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Honey bee
I don’t think it really matters in your case. Since there are very few people traveling, people will require less time for notification, but sending them 10 months ahead of time doesn’t hurt because they’ll be getting the invitations in a timely manner. For people that have destination weddings, you want to send them as early as possible while still being relevant.
Post # 4

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Honey bee
Oh, and we’re date twins! I’ll be sending out my save the dates this month because everyone will be traveling.
Post # 5

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Busy bee
Thanks! you’ve both made me feel better about sending them now.. Yay my first date twin!
Sept 19th will be our 5 year anniversary!! Couldnt have a better date!
Post # 6

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Busy bee
futuremrsJR: Send them! We sent ours out a year in advance since it was in the primetime of summer
Post # 7

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Buzzing bee
I was wondering about this too And if it was to early! our wedding is Sept 18, 2015, And also fall theme photos. I had the same concerns you do. thanks for posting this!
Post # 8

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Busy bee
YES!! Thank you all I will be sending them in a week or two!! 🙂