- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2014 - Kukahiko Estate
I have a question about sending save the dates…
We have been talking to friends and family about our destination wedding in order to get a rough headcount and to give them a heads up on what we are planning and when. We have had a few people say that they will not be able to make it, which we expected and is ok. However, I am making save the dates, and was wondering if we should send them to these people? The few people that have declined are like, an aunt and uncle that we would like to come but probably cannot.
I thought that we should send them to these people, since we would still like them to come and we want to still extend the invitation if they change their minds. FI thought it was silly to send it to them since they already said they can’t come. What do you guys think?