(Closed) Save the Date to Coworker?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: What should I do?
    Wait until after she anounces resignation, everyone will understand when she doesn't get one then. : (8 votes)
    53 %
    After she announces you would still be rude to exclude her, give your cards out after Christmas. : (2 votes)
    13 %
    Give out cards now, while her resignation is a secret, just never send an actual invitation. : (2 votes)
    13 %
    Other, please explain below. : (3 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    3755 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    I would wait until after her last day of work. Even with the weekend/holiday you can still give out the Christmas themed Save-The-Date Cards after. You don’t want to stir the pot by excluding her before she’s gone!

    Post # 4
    Member
    5479 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Just skip Save-The-Date Cards for coworkers and see who is still working there when the actual invitations go out.  It would be considered rude to send a STD then not follow it with a formal invitation.

    Post # 5
    Member
    3265 posts
    Sugar bee

    @DaneLady:  Agreed!  STD’s are meant only for those nearest and dearest to you.  For those that you simply cannot get married with out them being there.

    I would not send anything to any co-workers, and just invite whomever works there when the time rolls around.

    Post # 6
    Member
    11752 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    mail them.

    Post # 7
    Member
    6124 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I say mail them too.   Remember though, everyone who gets an STD has to get an invitation too.  So if any of them are leaving or you have a fall out with any of the remaining 10, you still have to invite them.  But not all guests have to receive an STD.

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