(Closed) Save the Dates

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Would you send each "child" a Save the Date?
    Yes : (2 votes)
    8 %
    No : (22 votes)
    92 %
  • Post # 3
    14 posts
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I really think you only need to send one STD (and invitation, while we’re at it) per household, in my opinion.

    Post # 4
    2260 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Nope, you should only do it if they are living away from home, unless they are living on campus somewhere to go to school. Then I would include them in their parents invite.

    Post # 5
    4803 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    No, just write their name on the envelope.

    Post # 6
    466 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Nope, its not my fault family members are in their mid 20s and wont move out of home. I am sending invites and save the dates per household.

    Post # 8
    350 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    For me, this was a case-by-case basis…. I have some younger cousins who are away at college, would never bother to RSVP or bring a gift, may or may not just show up for the free booze… I did not send them their own invitation, I just added theirs to mom and dad’s.  For older cousins who still live at home, but have a serious bf/gf, and are resposible enough to actually RSVP and everything, they got their own + guest.

    I must say though, when I sent out the actual invites (which ended up being ~$6 each with postage), it KILLED me to send more than one to a household regardless!

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