(Closed) Save the dates

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
960 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@mrsspitz13:  not without seeming very rude.


We did that and then didn’t invite people but those were people that FI’s parents are fueding with. Doesn’t “technically” make it better, but oh well…

If oyu don’t really care about being rude you can not invite them, or send their invite late and tell them there was mailing difficulties and then hope they’ve forgotten and can’t come?

Post # 4
56 posts
Worker bee

I think that if you have sent the save the date then you should invite them otherwise it would seem rude

Post # 5
4528 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Invite and hope they decline

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