(Closed) Save the Dates going out NOW, freaking out…

posted 6 years ago in Paper
Post # 2
213 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: Las Palmas

It’s so terrifying! Our invites are also going out today now that the strike has been postponed (thank goodness!) It’s not the mairrage commitment that scares me, it’s the event planning and monetary commitment. After this there is no turning back – we are planning huge events with all of our closest family and friends! I’m really bad at making decisions for myself and for other people, so asking people to invest their time and hard earned money to come to our (destination) wedding, stresses me out. It will be fine, everything will fall into place.

You’ve got this bee. Everyone is going to be so excited to receive those Save the Dates! Get ’em in the mail 😉

Post # 3
1140 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I didn’t have to deal with a postal strike, but no, sending out STDs did not terrify me.  Nor does sending out invites.  I had already created a budget and (mostly) stuck to it.

Post # 4
8674 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2016

*hugs* you got this. 🙂

Post # 5
2156 posts
Buzzing bee

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ana2017:  just droppped mine at the post office on friday…didn’t find it terrifying, i found it exciting! you’ll be ok.

Post # 7
175 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

yeah I too had a freak out momement. Not because of the commitment but because of all the money I just commited to spending.

Post # 10
417 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

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ana2017 :  omg!!! I could have written this post!!! I suffer from terrible aniexty. I also hate the feeling of being “stuck” and once sonething is done, there is no turning back. Im having same exact reaction to having to put more money doen on venue on 7/23/17. Im freaking out!!! 


Its scary IMO, its a commitment and a big one at that. Especially when you feel like there is no turning back lol. Stay postive, afterall its very exciting. You live once and its really just a big party at the end of the day. Thats how i have been looking at it and its been helping. 


PM if u ever need to vent. I can totally relate. Best of luck! 

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